Happiness is about Harmony
and is a here and now place

You can have anything you want,
YOU? just can't have everything you want!

happiness is a pathway NOT a destination and is more about disposition than circumstances!

How one chooses to experience life has a lot to do with how one perception of it! Consider the new, novel and unknown, is it greeted as exciting with anticipation or greeted as fear with trepidation! Researchers belief, chronic worriers are twice as likely to develop Alzheimer's as the "don't worry be happy gang"! The more content we are with our self and situation, the happier we're likely to feel. The difference between expectation and situation is our major determinant, this includes things like financial security as well as a good social support structure bring a sense of being loved creating contented and completed camper! That said, the unfinished business thing says a little struggle bring stimulation and satisfaction through challenge is also a good thing! Women are general satisfied in more aspects of their life's whereas men tend to get satisfaction from a few set of things!