A truely selfish person is
incapable of loving others
and of loving self either!

A selfish person does not 
love themselves too much but too little,
in fact they hate themselves.
This lack of fondness and caring for self,
which is only one expression of productiveness,
leaves them empty and frustrated.
They are necessarily unhappy and anxiously
concerned with snatching what ever
fleeting satisfaction which they 
block themselves from attaining.
They seem to care too much for self
but they actually are only make an
unsuccessful attempt to compensate
for there failure to care for self.

The selfish person is only interested in self,
wants everything for self and feels no pleasure
from giving but only in taking. 
They lack interest in the needs of others and 
respect for their dignity and integrity. 
They can only see self and other from there
usefulness to self and basically are 
unable to love or be loving!  

You can only love others
as much as you love self!