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As parents we are all guilty at times of bad behaviour- we lose our tempers, we say hurtful things, we over re-act or we under-react to issues that come up. We may blame ourselves for getting our child immunized too soon, not breastfeeding, not feeding them the most nutritious diet available, not setting a good example, not being able to provide for them as well as we had hoped, or giving them too much. Yes, we have a lot of things to feel guilty about if we take the time to think about it. Take a minute now and write down 5 or 6 things you did wrong with your kids.
A list of your guilty behavior might look something like this:1) I dropped Michael on his head as a baby.2) I smoked when I/my wife was pregnant. 3) It’s my fault he has/is _________________. 4) I let the doctor talk me/my wife into taking anti-nausea medication while I/she was pregnant. 5) I lost my temper too many times to count. 6) I forgot his birthday when he was 12. Now, take each of your statements and drop them into this pattern: Even though _________________________________ I accept myself and I forgive myself. I was doing the best I could do. Say each sentence aloud three times while tapping your karate chop point, the fleshy area by your little finger on the side of your palm. Say the sentences even if you don’t believe them. Modified Tapping SequenceOnce you have done this, go through this modified tapping sequence until each of the statements you have written down have less charge to them. Tap the following points: 1)top of the head, 2)between eyebrows,3) side of the eye, 4)under the eye-on the eye bone, just below the pupil, 5)under the nose, 6) under the lips, 7)at the indent below the color bone, where the knot of a loosely knotted tie might be, and 8) under the arms-in the area of a woman’s bra strap. Lightly and quickly tap each of these points 5-12 times, running through the whole sequence a few times. How does that feel now? Some people will report feeling a bit lighter or more relaxed.If your list is longer keep working at it. Once you forgive yourself for your mistakes, you will start to find it easier to forgive other people. EFT for Needles and Blood TestsIf you have anxiety around needles and blood tests, try the following simple procedures based on a combination of Chinese acupressure points and modern psychology, Emotional Freedom Technique. Here are some EFT
statements to use while tapping the “karate chop” area on the side of
your
hand. Say each statement 3 times and
then do a round of EFT or two for the ones that still resonate with
you. If you have a different issue when it comes to needles, substitute
your own issue. Even though I feel foolish for having this problem, I humbly accept myself. Even though I feel like fainting at the sight of my own blood, I accept myself. Even though I’m feeling nauseous (or faint , or queasy) at the thought of having a needle in me or having my blood come out, I accept myself and I know that I have been doing the best that I can under the circumstances. Even though I know that I should not be afraid, and yet I have some fear of needles and of having my blood taken, I accept myself. Even though others might think less of me for this fear of needles , I accept myself and I forgive them and I also forgive myself- we are all doing the best we can, given who we are. Even though I sometimes faint at the sight of blood, I accept myself. Even though I feel like I should not have this irrational fear, I accept myself. Even though I may never get completely over this problem, I accept myself and I forgive myself or anyone else for any part we/they have played in my having this problem. Even though the first time this happened was a disaster, I accept myself and I forgive anyone involved. We were all doing our best. Even though I might subconsciously enjoy all the attention I get when I go for blood tests and faint, I accept myself and forgive myself, I am really just doing the best I can. Do this for any other aspects that come up: Even though that needle looks very scary , I accept myself and I forgive the nurse; she is doing her best to do her job. Even though ____________________________________________ I accept myself and I’m doing my best. Do a few rounds of EFT as described in below or online at www.emofree.ca and you will be ready to donate blood. Tapping Points –acupressure points associated with Chinese Medicine
copyright Mildred Thill, EFT
Practitioner
in Edmonton, Alberta 780-432-3605. Feel free to copy this article
and pass it on with the link to this web site included. Stress Related Acne : A Self Help SheetIf you have acne or other skin condition that seems overwhelming to you, perhaps EFT can help provide some relief. The longer you have had this problem the more difficult it may be to completely release it, but persistence pays. If your acne gets worse under stress, then EFT may be just the thing for you. Start with addressing those subconcious beliefs that block healing, Psychological ReversalsStart with removing some psychological reversals- negative self-limiting beliefs- that are typical of acne sufferers. Yours may not be exactly the same, but you are welcome to change the words to fit your own circumstances. Tapping on the side of your hand just below your pinkie, say each of the following statements three to six times: Even though I have this acne condition, I accept myself. (You can use your own words for the italicised part). Even though I feel ugly, embarrassed, ashamed,_________________ (any other emotions that come to mind ), I accept myself. Even if I never get over this acne condition, I accept myself. Try these phrases if they make sense to you or fit with your
situation
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