Some
of you know that I co-moderate the EFT anxiety forum. This posting by
Starsailor (used with her permission) should give some hope to anyone
that has suffered from this debilitating problem. Starsailor also gives
some excellent
advice on how to get started quickly with EFT.
Hi there,
I had very bad panic attacks last year but haven't had one in a few
months now. Some days I was so bad that I couldn't even sit up. But I
have succeeded in getting rid of them - just the occasional flare up
now and again - so I would say you have come to the right
place.If you
want to learn EFT very quickly, just tick the on the link below, enter
your email address and hit the button.
http://www.emofree.com/downloadeftmanual.asp
Your
manual will be emailed to you and you can learn how to do basic EFT in
less
than twenty minutes. Also, spend as much time anywhere on
emofree.com as
you can, learning as much as you can. It might be easier for you
to read
the manual and learn the EFT procedure first, so that you are
familiar
with the terms like "reversal", "the PR point", "basic
recipe", and all the other terms, otherwise what you read on the
site won't make too much sense. Once you are familiar with
the
terminology, try the archives link below for lots of case histories.
http://www.emofree.com/Archives.aspx
Although
not necessary, it might help you to order the DVDs because watching
other
people succeed, even on issues not related to yours, can provide
reassurance
for you during the really tough times.
Once you
are up and running with the technique, four things that I can tell you
that
might help you are:
1) By now, your problem will
have at least two causes. The first one is the original fear that
started
off the panic attacks, and the second one, which grows with time, is
the fear
of the actual panic attacks. So firstly you need to try and
collapse the
issues that caused the panic attacks, but additionally you need to tap
many
times a day on fear of the panic attacks:
- Even though
I have this fear of the panic attacks, I deeply and completely accept
myself.
- Even though
I'm scared that these panic attacks will never go away, I deeply love
and accept myself.
- Even though
I have this fear of the panic attacks because they take all the power
out of my legs, I deeply...
- Even though
I have this fear of the panic attacks because I can't breathe, I
deeply...[Obviously
you would substitute in whichever physical symptoms you have]
2) Prefixing - this was a
huge help to me. What you do is that you prefix every problem
with
"not safe to let go of" and/or "cannot let go of". A
lot of the time I would get stuck and the fear would just not go away,
but then
I would add in the prefixes and it worked extremely well. So
the way
this goes is as follows:
- Even though it is not safe to let go of this fear of the
panic attacks, I deeply and completely accept myself.
- Even though I cannot let go of this fear of the panic
attacks, I deeply....
- Even though it is not safe for me to let go of this fear
that the panic attacks will never go away, I deeply....
- Even though I cannot let go of this fear that the panic
attacks will never go away, I deeply....
Do
several rounds on each of these and you may notice that one works
better than
others, and then you can sort of stick with that one. But don't
forget
that if one of them stops working well for you, try the other ones
again.
3) Plain old acupressure,
without the EFT, was very helpful to me also. The points that helped me
most
are H7 on the wrist, P6 on the inner forearm and GV26 under the
nose.
Push and hold any of these points for a minute or so. Frequently
all the
strength went out of my arms and I couldn't push on the points with
very much
pressure, so if this happens to you, use an object such as a pencil or
a button
or something hard to help increase the pressure without you having to
push so
hard. If you don't know where these points are, google them to get
some
diagrams.
4)
Learn how to do Pat Carrington's choices method and do that sometimes
too i.e.
incorporate some positive language in there. You are in a spiral
of
negativity now and you will be pushing negative thoughts into your head
all day
long. Even if you only get five minutes of positive phrases per
day,
it'll make all the difference. You need to use anything all
all
that puts something positive into your life. Don't aim for
anything
spectacularly high ("I choose to feel completely calm and comfortable
now") because you will just reject that outright. Instead, aim
for
the best that you can do under the circumstances:
I choose
to feel a little better now.
I choose
to remember other people live with this condition and I'm managing to
do just
that [which is a great achievement, by the way] . I choose
to remember other people have beaten this condition, and there's a good
chance
that I will either lessen it or beat it too.
I choose
to remember that there are thousands of case histories in the EFT
archives and
they can't ALL be lying, so this procedure must really work.
Good
luck and I know how horrible it all is but learn the tapping and then
persist,
persist, persist and you'll find that the gaps between the panic
attacks grow
longer and longer.