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Read what clients have written about panic
attacks, anxiety, personal crisis, foot pain,
headache and guilt
relief. Other clients comment on the
improvement in their out-look after one or two sessions dealing with relationships.
Featured Testimonial
Client recovering from Anxiety, Depression, Trauma
This client has come a long way
from the anxious, depressed person she was when we met on the anxiety forum.
Here is a letter she recently sent me:
Dear Mildred,
It seems such a short time ago that I was hating life, and
wanted to end it.
Considering all the baggage that I was carrying
it's almost
unbelievable that every day I am feeling
better emotionally,
physically,and spiritually. Even though there have been
several
people who have reached out to me, you have managed to fill a huge
vacuum in my life,and remove old scars that were deeply
entrenched.
The time and personal attention you have given me is priceless. Anyone
can call themselves a practitioner, but it takes true self sacrifice
and caring to really help someone the way you have helped in this
situation. Even my own husband made the comment that because of
the
empathy you show for others, you will do very well in this field.
After living a childhood of abuse and witnessing my own mothers murder
by my father, there haven't been any "therapist" who have been able to
help , or any "pill" that could give me even a measure of inner
peace.
However with EFT, and the incredible insight
and natural ability that
you possess, thankfully there now exists an inner peace
that I would
have thought was never possible in this life. Not only have you managed
to give the attention I really need, but you have been a loving and
caring friend.
With your sincere and gentle manner I have felt
completely at ease, even with phone sessions, because
the whole while
you seem to be right there holding my hand. That is
truly a powerful
testament to the incredible ability you possess in being able to
heal,because in order to convey one's most intimate feelings, one
needs
a caring and sympathetic ear.
Too it was very helpful considering the
fact that you show total respect and sensitivity towards my
religious
beliefs. Being that I attribute every thing good that we have from
God, you have never once made me feel uncomfortable, or uneasy in
that
area. Thank you Mildred for all the help you have sent my
way. May
you find the same if you ever find yourself in need. :)
Arum
Help with Breaking-Up Grief and Panic
This client was having a hard
time getting over a difficult and destructive long-distance
relationship. This letter was in response to a follow-up email I sent
her. Names have been changed to protect privacy.
Hi Mildred,
Things are going SO much better now. The
panicky feeling of being alone without Ed is gone, thank God. We
talked about three weeks ago and I told him I was done, and got the
closure that I needed.
We don't talk really anymore (except if he
messages me on MSN) and my head feels more clear now that I am not
putting up with his garbage and moodiness and control. He messaged me
the other night to ask me how I was doing and I said "AWESOME!" Then he
got upset because I told him I was awesome but would not elaborate.
He's better left alone, and I am happy in my life now, finally, without
him. I couldn't have done it without your help though, and the tapping.
I am convinced it got me through this much more smoothly.
Thank
you for all your help. Hopefully one of these days I can start working
on my public speaking phobia and weight issues with tapping. But for
now I am just trying to finish my degree. Only three more weeks to go!!
I hope you are well,
take care,
Nancy
Annoyance at Husband - A Demonstration of Telephone EFT
I often
demonstrate the power of EFT with a short stress-reducing session on
the phone. For instance, the other day, a woman phoned me and wondered
how I could help with stress by phone. I asked her to think of
some
small issue that had recently irritated her. She was married, so I
suggested she think of something her husband had done. After a bit of
thought, she admitted that he had annoyed her that morning when she had
called him at work to complain that the screen door needed repairs and
he had not sounded very sympathetic. She was at a 5 on the scale for
being upset about it.
I took her through the tapping
sequence by phone, suggesting she karate chop her knee and saying:
- Even though my husband doesn’t care about the screen door
as much as I do, I accept myself.
- Even though he cares about his stuff more than he cares
about my stuff, I accept myself.
- Even though when he’s at work he doesn’t care about things
at home, I accept myself.
Then I took her through all the
tapping points, saying as I went:
- Even though he’s got other things on his mind and is
worrying about his own things, I accept myself.
- Even though I care about my stuff more than I care about
his stuff, I accept myself.
- Even though he cares about his stuff and I care about my
stuff, I accept myself.
- Maybe when he comes home and sees the screen door then
maybe he’ll care more about it then.
By the end, I had her laughing and
her stress level about the incident down to 0.
Some of you might notice how I
reframed the incident for her-it
really wasn’t her husband trying to hu
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