Each web page for The Quest ends with the following statement, which I also often use in my newsgroup signature: "I believe that God is not our parent but our child and, like the children of our bodies, is born from our acts of love." This is a discussion of what I mean in that statement by "Acts of Love."
What do I mean by "Acts of Love"? One meaning which probably leaps to your mind is that alluded to by the picture below the tetrahedron symbol at the top of this page, of two people kissing, and suggested by the statement at the bottom of this page; namely, the activities that humans use to consummate and celebrate a love relationship. In a word, sex. But something beyond the loose general use of "making love" to denote any unforced, unpressured, uncompensated sex. Recreational or carefully lustful sex can be one of life's great joys, but I think most people, when they think about it, want the act of love which is "making love" to include something more, namely "being in love".
So what is love? To that epochal question the Random House Webster's dictionary I'm using responds with twenty-seven definitions -- some of them having nothing to do with relations between people -- five synonyms and, well, a lot of related terms.
Some people see this and revolt against using such an ambiguous, wide-ranging, often misapplied word to convey any kind of precise meaning. They may say that we would do better to make the distinctions that other languages do by using more than one word, as Greek famously does with "eros" and "agape."
I see instead a glory, perhaps accidental but nevertheless real, of the English language, reflecting a unity waiting to be discovered behind ambiguity.
Let me step back briefly and say how I reached the point at which the meaning of love became important to me.
Perhaps you haven't read my sermon, "Journey to a Quest for Love." To summarize, I began with what science has to teach me about the world around me, my own planet and the rest of the Universe, and I concluded that I and my fellow-humans are products of a generalized process of evolution -- physical, biological and social -- that has made us free and thus placed us at what I call the moment of Earth, the crucial juncture at which we become free specifically to decide whether or not, and how, evolution on our planet may go on into the future.
To make this decision for myself, I needed to figure out what kind of further evolution is possible for us. I see evolution as an emergence, in which one kind of evolution leads to another as entities of one kind produce a new kind by acting in a new forming relationship.
What is emerging from humanity? I believe that it is that entity which we experience in a variety of ways -- yet with a consistency as to its nature which in me leads to a conviction that it is the same entity -- and which, when we are asked to name it, we tend to call God.
And what is the forming relation in which we make from ourselves this new entity? It is realized in as great a variety of ways as those in which God is experienced. But those ways have in common that the word "love" keeps getting used: love towards another human, love shared in a fellowship, love towards God, love from God, God as love, sometimes love as a state of being or a property of existence. If the word "love" had not been there for me to see, I might not have seen the commonality, the thread through all the activities that help bring God into the world. Or if I had, I would have had to seek out a term to use to express it. But my language had the word waiting for me, and I happily took the opportunity to use it.
There remained, though, the challenge of arriving at a definition that selected from all the meanings of "love" those that applied to the God experience, while leaving out the irrelevant ones, and also drew in some activities, not usually called love, that should be included -- the word "love" is rarely applied, for instance, to meditation, yet meditation can be an important way of reaching God, whereupon God is then experienced as love.
The definition of "love" that I arrived at is
To return to the example of sex: recreational sex with another person can be a great fun activity, but it does treat the partner as just that, an other; the kind of sex that can become a sacrament, on the other hand, involves a sense and state of oneness with, a consciousness of unity with, the partner.
I could say that the ways to God are those activities which entail consciousness of unity, but for this concept, so central to my religion, I prefer short words, and call them acts of love.
So this is what I mean by "Acts of Love" in the broad sense.
But to get from knowing what general kind of things to do to
bring God into my world, to selecting or recommending
specific activities, I need to consider the categories
separately.
Let me now refer you to other pages which will, as the
poem puts it, "count the ways":
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anthonybuckland@telus.net
last modified: May 12, 2007
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I believe that God is not our parent but our child
and, like the children of our bodies,
is born from our acts of love.
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