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Short and Sweet:
Tips for living the abundant life
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Another Coffee from the June 1993 Deep Cove Crier
Don’t Wait to Tell Your Dad that You Love Him….
Father’s Day each June is a time when most of us look back on those special
memories of times with our Dads. I will always remember sitting in
my Dad’s swivel chair at his office, and getting to play with all of his
electronic gadgets. From Grade 3 to Grade 10, I knew beyond a shadow
of a doubt that I was going to be an electrical engineer, just like my
Dad. I admired him very much, as he worked hard and climbed the corporate
ladder. My Dad would often take me to his workshop downstairs.
As I helped him cut 2-by-4’s, he would talk to me, just as if I were an
adult, about all the projects he was working on around the world.
Every time he went around the world to exotic places like the Philippines
or the Mideast, he would bring back coins and stamps for my growing collections.
I always loved going to the Vancouver Airport and waiting for my Dad to
arrive. It felt good to have Dad back home. I remember sitting
eagerly in the living room as Dad would open his suitcase and hand out
special presents from far-away lands. But even more than the presents,
I loved to hear stories about these strange new worlds that my father had
visited.
My Dad was not much for talking about his feelings, but he loved to
share his enthusiasm for getting jobs done. I have since learnt
that my Dad communicated his feelings indirectly in numerous non-verbal
actions. Why is it that we so often misinterpret our fathers until
it may be too late? Click to find out more…
Refill?